Phone Dating Rule: Calling immediately is not a sign of desperation.

Calling immediately is not a sign of desperation. Most daters are afraid they will come off as lame or pathetic if they call immediately after the date. This is not true. All that matters is what you say during that phone call. An example of this is when you’re at a bar and a girl gives you her number and leaves. Wouldn’t it be nice for the girl to come home and get a message from you saying you already want to see her? Sincerely and not sounding like a total creep. The trick is not to assume anything, give them a call, leave your number and hope for the best. Many girls actually think this is a great move, but you have to do it right since girls are also put-off by over-confidence. Just be suave and chill and wait for that phone call. Only call once, it is more than enough. If done right, things could totally get rolling from there.